As I sat engrossed in the movie Steel Magnolias, a line uttered by the character Shelby resonated deeply within me. Her words, "I would rather have thirty minutes of something wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special," struck a chord in my heart.
Shelby's line sparked a profound introspection. So, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery, seeking out the wonderful moments in my life. These wonderful moments are not just the big, life-changing events, but also the small, everyday joys that often go unnoticed. They are the moments of laughter, the moments of connection, and the moments of peace. To my surprise, I found a treasure trove of joy, realizing that life's richness lies not in the quantity of time but in the quality of moments we embrace.
My reflection begins with being planted in my mother's womb, which was the start of my wonderful. The day of my birth, meeting my parents and siblings, and being introduced to this vast world was wonderful. Many years of growing, learning, and evolving followed, each one more wonderful than the last. The day I became a mother and birthed my two beautiful children into the world, my daughter and son, was incredibly wonderful, leading me to more experiences, learnings, and evolution. Marrying the love of my life, becoming a blended family, and welcoming my bonus daughter was more wonderful. And now, becoming the grandmother of three amazing grandchildren is an abundance of wonderful.
It's not just the major milestones that make life wonderful. It's the everyday moments, the simple pleasures, the shared laughter, and the joy of being with loved ones that truly make life worth living. Love for oneself, passion for life, and fulfillment of one's purpose also bring about wonderful moments.
After reflecting on my life, I realized that life is about living in the present and cherishing each moment as you are experiencing it. Mindfulness, or the practice of being fully present in the moment, is key to this. We should strive to seek out the wonderful in our everyday lives and not just wait for the big moments. By being mindful, we can fully appreciate the beauty and joy in even the most ordinary moments, making our lives richer and more fulfilling.
Therefore, I urge you to embark on a journey of self-discovery. Uncover those wonderful moments that ignite your soul. Cherish the small things, the simple pleasures, and the everyday joys, for they are the true essence of life. Don't wait for the grand occasions to arrive. Find joy in the present, and transform your life into a perpetual celebration of the wonderful. You'll be amazed at how this simple shift in perspective can bring more happiness, fulfillment, and meaning into your life. Reflect on your life, and you'll find that the wonderful outweighs the nothing special.
Karen Abbott-Trimuel (KAT)
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